dang it i hate wireless inter net i so just got kicked off right before i posted a 50 page answer so here it is in very short.........wiggle the input shaft since it out if it wiggles in and out and up and down and maybe even all around then try to put it in rev (with trany on floor) and wiggle the input shaft if it goes into rev then all you have to do is replace the input shaft bearing very easy and you can do it at home like you are now......if it dont move then try to wiggle the out put shaft if that wiggles and it goes into rev that way then replace the output shaft bearing if it dont on both then you might wanna do a tear down hun sorry to have to tell you this but try them two first hope it helps talk to you two love birds later over and out!!

 

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