Having a really rough time finding any diy write ups or how-to videos just to verify how these all go together. I understand the process but I’m trying to atleast see if I have the correct set and can’t find any good exploded diagrams either.

this was a 58$ eBay special because I really do not want to go the polyurethane route with my 94xtended cab.

 

Here's a link to my '87 cab mounting parts page with diagrams. You can change to your year by clicking the box with year in it, then change the other boxes to fit yours. It looks like the bushings you bought have toyota part numbers on them. Once you get to your year's cab mounting parts page, click on the 5 digit # and you'll get a popup with the toyota 10 digit part # to match up. Hope this helps.

https://japan-parts.eu/toyota/us/198...-body-mounting

 

Looks like the "rounded" cushions go on top of the frame piece, and the more "squared off" cushions go under the frame piece.
https://parts.lakelandtoyota.com/sho...roduct=3997786

That diagram is for '79 thru '83 models, but I suspect other year groups would be the same. '84 thru '88 look very similar.

 

yes but I’m in the 89-95 truck forum and i have a 94

 

Well, I'm more used to the older models, and you also didn't specify in your original post what year you were working with. I don't think those bushings are going to work on your '94. Pretty clearly marked on the bushings it says "RN30-50". Those models are 1979 thru 1988, which is why I said what I did.
Your '94 is a RN101, which falls in the 1989 thru 1997 years.

The #2 & #3 cab bushings are different than what you have there:
https://www.toyotapartsdeal.com/part..._mounting.html

Those seem to have metal plates are part of the bushing(s).

 

I also found this diagram, correct for a '94: https://toyota-europe.epc-data.com/4...264/body/5251/