93 4-runner, 3.0- I'm trying to locate the circuit opening relay,droped the glove box and pulled the passenger side kick panel and removed the ECM (Info given in my chiltons manual)but still could not locate the relay , does the dash need to be removed? any help in locating and removing this relay would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

 

it should be back there.... look for a light gray plug and about 9 wires going into it. its kinda behind the speaker more than behind the ecu.

 

its above the ECU, behind the speaker. Its sort of a pain to get to, but its up there.