Where is my buddy list? It use to be on the left but not anymore. Yes I have buddies to put in that list.

 

To add someone to your bud list, click on their name in a post, and a drop down box will open up with it in the selection.

To access your bud list, click on the "Quick Links" link at the top right of your screen in the light colored blue bar.
You will see it there.

I liked the old way better, but alas with any upgrade a few things change from the software dudes.