ok so i tried lots of things to get it too line up but i just cant any tip/tricks?

to getting the upper ball joint back to it control arm?








ive jacked the lower arm to try and push it in but wont work?!!?! idk im a little new to mechanical things

 

Looks like the upper end of the CV axle slipped out of the bell. Happened to me when I was installing BJ spacers, you just have to wiggle it around a bit in order to push it back in. Then the ball joint ought to line up.