I have a 96 4runner with a 3" suspension lift

I've finally managed to wear out the bushings on my upper control arms and debating whether it's worth getting the style with an offset to avoid breaking the upper ball joints so often...

thing is I push this rig pretty hard pretty regular, I'm not sure if I'm just wasting money on a part that's likely to break or if it's actually worth it

anyone have experience with these things?