Below is a complete list of fluids I have switched to for my 1998 4Runner. I also use exactly the same fluids for my 2001 Lexus LX470. It took several hours to research and decide what to use. I tried to go all synthetic and bought what I could find locally. Any real concerns with what I'm using? I care to hear most about something that would materially affect the life of the SUV. Thanks for your thoughts and for the posts from everyone that are already on this site.
Oil
Synthetic 5w-30
ATF
Valvoline Sythetic Multi-Vehicle ATF
Brake
Valvoline Sythpower Dot 3/4
Power Steering
Valvoline MaxLife Sythetic ATF
Antifreeze
Toyota Red Long Life Coolant
Front Diff
Valvoline Sythetic 75W-90
Transfer Case
Valvoline Sythetic 75W-90
Rear Diff
Valvoline Durablend 80w-90
U Joint/Spider
Mobile 1 Synthetic NGLI #2 Lithium - (Non-Moly)
Driveshaft/Yoke
Valvoline Synthetic NGLI #2 Lithium - (Moly fortified)