Im posting this on DezertRangers too, but maybe someone here knows.

Power door locks not working, faulty actuator, new actuator moves, old one does not, when i plug in the connector so i know i needs to replace it.

My one issue is the pictures below. The old actuator assembly has 3 more wires coming from the connector that seem to go to some sort of button sensor.
This sensor is is connected via push rod to the Key door lock in the handle.

The new actuator does not have these wires. What happens if I just run it with the new actuator and the sensor is therefore INACTIVE.

 

From that second angle, it looks as if you could probably swap the extra three wires over to the connector of your new connector. Look up in the FSM how to remove wires from a connector then reinstall them in the new connector.