Where can I find a good online parts book ti track down small bits, grommets, rummer spacers, bolts, etc?

 

Try Pullapart if there is one in your area. You can get about anything if they have a few trucks in stock. The one in Knoxville has 5 Toyotas in right now, they just already had all the trannys pulled by the time I made it by there a couple weeks ago.

 

i havent tried these guys, let us know if you do.
http://www.toyomotorparts.com/