MyMiddleNameIsYOTA

Hey I just bought a 1991 pick up, sr5, 3vze, 5 speed, extended cab. 135,000 miles.

I am leaving for the Navy here in a little bit so I'm planning on blowing all my money on a lift (rough country 4-5"), and bigger tires, thinking either 33's or 35's if they'll fit. and a front bumper that doesn't hog up the whole front end, and can hold a couple Hella's or KC's.

I want to do this the right way, make it a clean looking truck, because I'm doing the Navy reserves so I'll get it back after basic and A school. but my little brother is turning 16 and I want him to drive a bad to the bone truck to school. If anyone has done this lift, can I throw 35 x 12'.5's on it? I dout it but that would be sick. So far my only upgrades are a K&N drop in, glass pack, cat delete, brand new sachs clutch.
My main point is that if anyone has done something like this, can you offer me some advice? Don't say spakers, I had 2 10's in the back, powered by a 1000w amp and they were both stolen so I'm done with that stuff for now.