Worst Day of My Life...

Dare44 · 04-10-2008, 09:46 PM

So started out as a normal day, headed to school, gf was ignoring me tho, thought i must have did something. so i kinda just blew it off as nothing. So i went to lunch and i see her pass and her x following her to her house which i thought was wierd, and she didnt answer her phone. So i finally got ahold of her later and asked her to come to a school play thing we had tonight that we would get extra credit for. she said she had to work and couldnt, so i went with my buddy. we left early and were headed to his house and i get pulled over. so i stop and the cop is the one that like my gf and is hella jealous wrote me a bs ticket and was really rude. so i was

at, headed to her work cuz i knew when her lunch was to say hi. she wasnt there her boss said she lost her job cuz she didnt show today. so i am pretty

at this point and i am driving home taking a back road cuz i wanted to speed, and i pass her ex bf house and guess wat her

truck is there.

did a nice burnout right in front of his house and with my straight piped runner she heard it still havent heard from her but im ready to

for a while and

im a little pissed.

thanks for listening for my rant had to get it out.

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Elton · 04-10-2008, 09:48 PM

that sucks bro

Justinvd · 04-10-2008, 09:57 PM

High emotional tension + behind the wheel of a vehicle = bad combo

Haha I know this from experience, you start to wonder if it can ever get worse but it has that weird way of doing just that. Sorry to hear about your troubles though. When life gets your down think about your 4runner, thats what my happy thoughts are about haha.

nix4x4 · 04-10-2008, 09:57 PM

Hate to hear stuff like that, brother.
Hope she comes around or at least has the decency to come
out and tell you whats up to your face without you having to just find
out like that.

Crack open a case of beer and listen to some country music. They write songs about this all the time. Seriously. We're all here for ya, man.

Godzilla · 04-10-2008, 10:09 PM

Bah, this has got to go to the drama lounge..haha

But in all truth..let her go and let it go.. Life is to short to be wasting your time and energy on anything that isnt positive and helping you. Honestly, no excuses, no explanations..just the door and a middle finger salute. Never give them the satisfaction of an argument.
People like that are pathetic and deserve nothing.
Never let their actions mess with your life.

Dare44 · 04-10-2008, 10:22 PM

i really could care less if this went to the drama lounge i just had to get it out. and if my assumptions are wrong then i dont want it on myspace

Sloan · 04-10-2008, 10:30 PM

that sucks, just out of curiousity how old are you?

Dare44 · 04-10-2008, 10:36 PM

i will be 18 really soon, i know im going to get the o yeah ur young thing i know, this girl was different from all the others tho idk why or how, but she was.

Godzilla · 04-10-2008, 10:46 PM

I was kidding of the drama lounge thing, but it may end up there im sure.haha
Yes 18 is young, but this is when it starts. And well its all about learning. You learn how to approach it and deal with it, and from there you better yourself hopefully in the end.
Personally I have seen many friends go through this and it is not an easy thing. I am blunt on these topics. And I view them as a time to test who you are. And not to let these actions by others affect you negatively.
She is 18 too i assume so this stuff happens more frequently now since some are still pretty immature and dont understand what respect and trust means. But it will happen from 18+. Some people are twits, no matter what age.
Just keep rational and keep control, dont get all nut case emotional and screaming. oh and lay off the alcohol..haha

Godzilla · 04-10-2008, 10:47 PM

and regardless, you have a nice 4Runner, so its all good

Dare44 · 04-10-2008, 10:58 PM

thanks godzilla, i appreciate it, i am calming down now. and i havent really pushed my 4runner since the new tires so im pretty stoked it could do a burnout from 10mph haha

and i have a mom that treats me pretty well and i owe alot of money to. but im working and living was having a great time. i am sure there will be another one soon and i hope she is btr than this

and go for it i would be honored

Fo_SheeZy · 04-10-2008, 11:17 PM

Dude your too young to get involved in a serious relationship, take it from me; Me & my girlfriend have been dating since I was 17, and now I'm 20. At first she was cool, but then she started getting controlling, telling me what I could & couldn't do. Who I could & couldn't hang out with. So basicly it's still the same, and I've missed out on so much stuff in my life. My senior year in high school, hundreds of parties I missed out on. First summer after high school my two best friend's got there own place together and threw hundreds of parties, and I missed them all. the funnest years of my life are gone, and it depresses me to think about it, but anyways, what I'm trying to say is. While your young just play the field, and don't get into a serious relationship just yet, wait until later on in life for that. But that sucks man, that she has been chillin with her X behind your back. If I were you I'd kick his ass then act like you don't give a damn about her! Let her know that she messed up big time...

Dare44 · 04-10-2008, 11:18 PM

o u just wait his bronco is going to look good with a fist shaped dent in it

Dare44 · 04-10-2008, 11:32 PM

u better hope ur gf never reads that fo or u may be up

creek without a paddle. thanks for ur advise, and i got a anti non hot girl sticker on the runner to so that keeps some of them away says "lift it... fat chicks cant jump" i get alot of looks. i know im going to get slapped one day for it tho

SC4Runner · 04-10-2008, 11:36 PM

Yup, been there myself. You'll get over it though.. There are so many beautiful girls inside and out...

Good luck... don't get blinded by anger, you'll just regret it in the end. Even though it sounds irrational now, just keep your cool and things will work out for the best.

Dare44 · 04-10-2008, 11:38 PM

but i dont like fords. lol nah i really dont care at this point cuz she is going to get hurt by him. guy is a doushe and is using her for $ex. he told us that, not her and i kinda feel sry for her

stormin94 · 04-11-2008, 12:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SC4Runner

There are so many beautiful girls inside and out...

Man, that sucks. There are also many girls who are like a turd painted gold. They're pretty on the outside, but inside, they're s***

.

Just be thankful you don't have to deal with what Fo Sheezy had to deal with. Wow that must've been rough. I know how it is having a hard time just letting things go. I'd be pissed at that

for a while, and probably end up doing something stupid, like starting a rumor that I dumped her because I found out she had herpes/crabs...or something....

nix4x4 · 04-11-2008, 12:09 AM

Take it from Stormin, thats the only rational thing left to do now

Just do your best not to get caught up in this high school drama crap.
Just complicates things, which is what she wants. She be mad as hell
if she thinks you really don't care, even though you do, don't act like it.

ChickenLover · 04-11-2008, 12:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dare44

this girl was different from all the others tho idk why or how, but she was.

It doesn't sound like it to me. The only thing you can do now is bang a few of her friends. Oh, and please pay more attention in your English class. Trying to decipher your gibberish is challenging, to say the least.

stormin94 · 04-11-2008, 12:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ChickenLover

It doesn't sound like it to me. The only thing you can do now is bang a few of her friends.

Good advise. And can you think of a more perfect situation to plant the herpes/crabs rumour? Esp because you just know she has that one friend that talks to EVERYONE. Just try to find some satisfaction in that for a while, then after some time when some one confronts you about the rumour, you don't laugh at it anymore, but you almost feel sorry for her......almost. Then you know you have gotten over her completely

crolison · 04-11-2008, 04:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dare44

lol nah i really dont care at this point cuz she is going to get hurt by him.

Kind of same thing happened to me, got dumped she started going out with a guy we both knew was a douche. I didn't mind she broke up with me, but it pissed me off that she went out with the douche and got hurt.

Good to find out now while your young, before it went anywhere serious like stated above.

You should be about to graduate, and maybe go to college, college is a great place to make a huge change in your life. Trust me i changed alot since highschool, some for the better (220lbs - 150lbs), and some not so good, but I like myself alot better.

UncleBob · 04-11-2008, 07:40 AM

Oh, the good old days. If THAT is the worst day of your life so far, consider yourself lucky. There will be much worse.

Your Ex is a spineless slut. And women wonder why there aren't any 'good guys' around?

You'll look back on this day in 10 years and laugh.

Team420 · 04-11-2008, 07:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Godzilla

Bah, this has got to go to the drama lounge..haha

But in all truth..let her go and let it go.. Life is to short to be wasting your time and energy on anything that isnt positive and helping you. Honestly, no excuses, no explanations..just the door and a middle finger salute. Never give them the satisfaction of an argument.
People like that are pathetic and deserve nothing.
Never let their actions mess with your life.

X 2!!!!

norcalsvx · 04-11-2008, 08:21 AM

bummer grass valley PD are a bunch of dicks

***fustercluck*** · 04-11-2008, 08:53 AM

They say the best retaliation is living well. You are still in your formative years. Build of yourself an admirable character and for yourself considerable means. When the years pass, you'll peer into history with nostalgic reminiscence rather than regret.

Then any sense of sadness over matters like this will evaporate.

04-10-2008, 09:48 PM	#2 (permalink)
Elton Contributing Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Siletz,Oregon Posts: 10,657	that sucks bro __________________ My Truck 98 4runner SR5 3.4L 5spd 4x4 E-Locker Mods Mom 07 Tundra d-cab limited 5.7L 4x4 auto sister 92 pickup SR5 X-cab 3.0L 5spd 4x4 Papa 89 Pickup SR5 X-cab 4x4 3.0L 5spd/98 4runner SR5 4x4 auto 3.4L R.I.P 91 4runner SR5 4x4 3.0L 5spd Totaled 5/13/06 My Wreck

04-10-2008, 09:57 PM	#3 (permalink)
Justinvd Registered User Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: B.C Posts: 737	High emotional tension + behind the wheel of a vehicle = bad combo Haha I know this from experience, you start to wonder if it can ever get worse but it has that weird way of doing just that. Sorry to hear about your troubles though. When life gets your down think about your 4runner, thats what my happy thoughts are about haha. __________________ 1988 4runner- 22R-E 1986 P/U 22R-E T urning O ver after Y ears O f T rail A buse

04-10-2008, 09:57 PM	#4 (permalink)
nix4x4 Registered User Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: I'm an Ohio boy! Posts: 1,212	Hate to hear stuff like that, brother. Hope she comes around or at least has the decency to come out and tell you whats up to your face without you having to just find out like that. Crack open a case of beer and listen to some country music. They write songs about this all the time. Seriously. We're all here for ya, man. __________________ 1992 Xtra Cab 3.0/5-speed Work in progress..

04-10-2008, 10:22 PM	#6 (permalink)
Dare44 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: grass valley, ca Posts: 910	i really could care less if this went to the drama lounge i just had to get it out. and if my assumptions are wrong then i dont want it on myspace __________________ 1997 Toyota 4x4 SR5 4runner 3.4 auto Toytec 3 inch coil spring Lift Custom Front bumper Trail Gear Rock Sliders Modified Stock skid plates Maxxis Bighorn M/T's / Goodyear Wrangler TD's Amp Custom Rims Cobra CB, 5ft Firestik http://www.cardomain.com/ride/3008195 Near Future List Rear Bumper Lockers 1st Gen Roll Bar Winning the Lottery?

04-10-2008, 10:36 PM	#8 (permalink)
Dare44 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: grass valley, ca Posts: 910	i will be 18 really soon, i know im going to get the o yeah ur young thing i know, this girl was different from all the others tho idk why or how, but she was. __________________ 1997 Toyota 4x4 SR5 4runner 3.4 auto Toytec 3 inch coil spring Lift Custom Front bumper Trail Gear Rock Sliders Modified Stock skid plates Maxxis Bighorn M/T's / Goodyear Wrangler TD's Amp Custom Rims Cobra CB, 5ft Firestik http://www.cardomain.com/ride/3008195 Near Future List Rear Bumper Lockers 1st Gen Roll Bar Winning the Lottery?

04-10-2008, 10:09 PM	#5 (permalink)
Godzilla Registered User Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Vancouver Posts: 2,151	Bah, this has got to go to the drama lounge..haha But in all truth..let her go and let it go.. Life is to short to be wasting your time and energy on anything that isnt positive and helping you. Honestly, no excuses, no explanations..just the door and a middle finger salute. Never give them the satisfaction of an argument. People like that are pathetic and deserve nothing. Never let their actions mess with your life.

04-10-2008, 10:46 PM	#9 (permalink)
Godzilla Registered User Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Vancouver Posts: 2,151	I was kidding of the drama lounge thing, but it may end up there im sure.haha Yes 18 is young, but this is when it starts. And well its all about learning. You learn how to approach it and deal with it, and from there you better yourself hopefully in the end. Personally I have seen many friends go through this and it is not an easy thing. I am blunt on these topics. And I view them as a time to test who you are. And not to let these actions by others affect you negatively. She is 18 too i assume so this stuff happens more frequently now since some are still pretty immature and dont understand what respect and trust means. But it will happen from 18+. Some people are twits, no matter what age. Just keep rational and keep control, dont get all nut case emotional and screaming. oh and lay off the alcohol..haha

04-10-2008, 10:47 PM	#10 (permalink)
Godzilla Registered User Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Vancouver Posts: 2,151	and regardless, you have a nice 4Runner, so its all good

04-10-2008, 10:58 PM	#11 (permalink)
Dare44 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: grass valley, ca Posts: 910	thanks godzilla, i appreciate it, i am calming down now. and i havent really pushed my 4runner since the new tires so im pretty stoked it could do a burnout from 10mph haha and i have a mom that treats me pretty well and i owe alot of money to. but im working and living was having a great time. i am sure there will be another one soon and i hope she is btr than this and go for it i would be honored __________________ 1997 Toyota 4x4 SR5 4runner 3.4 auto Toytec 3 inch coil spring Lift Custom Front bumper Trail Gear Rock Sliders Modified Stock skid plates Maxxis Bighorn M/T's / Goodyear Wrangler TD's Amp Custom Rims Cobra CB, 5ft Firestik http://www.cardomain.com/ride/3008195 Near Future List Rear Bumper Lockers 1st Gen Roll Bar Winning the Lottery?

04-10-2008, 11:17 PM	#12 (permalink)
Fo_SheeZy Registered User Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: East Tennessee Posts: 1,598	Dude your too young to get involved in a serious relationship, take it from me; Me & my girlfriend have been dating since I was 17, and now I'm 20. At first she was cool, but then she started getting controlling, telling me what I could & couldn't do. Who I could & couldn't hang out with. So basicly it's still the same, and I've missed out on so much stuff in my life. My senior year in high school, hundreds of parties I missed out on. First summer after high school my two best friend's got there own place together and threw hundreds of parties, and I missed them all. the funnest years of my life are gone, and it depresses me to think about it, but anyways, what I'm trying to say is. While your young just play the field, and don't get into a serious relationship just yet, wait until later on in life for that. But that sucks man, that she has been chillin with her X behind your back. If I were you I'd kick his ass then act like you don't give a damn about her! Let her know that she messed up big time... __________________ *Check out my 2008 Urban 4Runner on CarDomain!!* http://www.cardomain.com/ride/3108855 http://www.myspace.com/bmplayar

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Dare44 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: grass valley, ca Posts: 910	o u just wait his bronco is going to look good with a fist shaped dent in it __________________ 1997 Toyota 4x4 SR5 4runner 3.4 auto Toytec 3 inch coil spring Lift Custom Front bumper Trail Gear Rock Sliders Modified Stock skid plates Maxxis Bighorn M/T's / Goodyear Wrangler TD's Amp Custom Rims Cobra CB, 5ft Firestik http://www.cardomain.com/ride/3008195 Near Future List Rear Bumper Lockers 1st Gen Roll Bar Winning the Lottery?

04-10-2008, 11:32 PM	#14 (permalink)
Dare44 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: grass valley, ca Posts: 910	u better hope ur gf never reads that fo or u may be up creek without a paddle. thanks for ur advise, and i got a anti non hot girl sticker on the runner to so that keeps some of them away says "lift it... fat chicks cant jump" i get alot of looks. i know im going to get slapped one day for it tho __________________ 1997 Toyota 4x4 SR5 4runner 3.4 auto Toytec 3 inch coil spring Lift Custom Front bumper Trail Gear Rock Sliders Modified Stock skid plates Maxxis Bighorn M/T's / Goodyear Wrangler TD's Amp Custom Rims Cobra CB, 5ft Firestik http://www.cardomain.com/ride/3008195 Near Future List Rear Bumper Lockers 1st Gen Roll Bar Winning the Lottery?

04-10-2008, 11:36 PM	#15 (permalink)
SC4Runner Contributing Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: 5th Gen San Diegan, California Posts: 5,892	Yup, been there myself. You'll get over it though.. There are so many beautiful girls inside and out... Good luck... don't get blinded by anger, you'll just regret it in the end. Even though it sounds irrational now, just keep your cool and things will work out for the best. __________________ 1996 4x4 3.4L 4Runner on 35's - 6" of lift, MTR's, E-locked, ARB Tacoma Bumper, Sliders and a cut off tail pipe. 1966 FJ40 - SOA with stock springs, stock 1F motor, and a smelly tailpipe.

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Dare44 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: grass valley, ca Posts: 910	but i dont like fords. lol nah i really dont care at this point cuz she is going to get hurt by him. guy is a doushe and is using her for $ex. he told us that, not her and i kinda feel sry for her __________________ 1997 Toyota 4x4 SR5 4runner 3.4 auto Toytec 3 inch coil spring Lift Custom Front bumper Trail Gear Rock Sliders Modified Stock skid plates Maxxis Bighorn M/T's / Goodyear Wrangler TD's Amp Custom Rims Cobra CB, 5ft Firestik http://www.cardomain.com/ride/3008195 Near Future List Rear Bumper Lockers 1st Gen Roll Bar Winning the Lottery?

04-11-2008, 12:09 AM	#18 (permalink)
nix4x4 Registered User Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: I'm an Ohio boy! Posts: 1,212	Take it from Stormin, thats the only rational thing left to do now Just do your best not to get caught up in this high school drama crap. Just complicates things, which is what she wants. She be mad as hell if she thinks you really don't care, even though you do, don't act like it. __________________ 1992 Xtra Cab 3.0/5-speed Work in progress..

04-11-2008, 07:40 AM	#22 (permalink)
UncleBob Registered User Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Middleburg, FL Posts: 632	Oh, the good old days. If THAT is the worst day of your life so far, consider yourself lucky. There will be much worse. Your Ex is a spineless slut. And women wonder why there aren't any 'good guys' around? You'll look back on this day in 10 years and laugh. __________________ Daily: 1990 2nd Gen 4-Runner SR5 V6 Toy: 1988 1st Gen 4-Runner SR5 V6

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norcalsvx Registered User Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Alpine--GRASS valley, CA Posts: 2,132	bummer grass valley PD are a bunch of dicks __________________ 1994 toy 22re- http://www.yotatech.com/f86/nocalsvx-s-94-toy-104593/ 2006 Subaru Forester XT -some mods/awd 5spd 1994 Subaru SVX- hwy runner 84 RX7- drag car build

04-11-2008, 08:53 AM	#25 (permalink)
*fustercluck* Sponsoring Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: right here. Posts: 7,061	They say the best retaliation is living well. You are still in your formative years. Build of yourself an admirable character and for yourself considerable means. When the years pass, you'll peer into history with nostalgic reminiscence rather than regret. Then any sense of sadness over matters like this will evaporate. __________________ War is an ugly thing, but not the ugliest of things. The decayed and degraded state of moral and patriotic feeling which thinks that nothing is worth war is much worse. The person who has nothing for which he is willing to fight, nothing which is more important than his own personal safety, is a miserable creature and has no chance of being free unless made and kept so by the exertions of better men than himself. John Stuart Mill English economist & philosopher (1806 - 1873)

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