I feel your pain my friend. I have a girl that is about 6000 miles away and it is one of the hardest things I've dealt with. In fact, I'm in Brazil right now trying to straighten some things out regarding our future since we've been together for a year. I agree with what some of the previous people said in that you shouldn't have any regrets. You don't want to be kicking yourself later but you don't want to turn into her bitch. I regretted not trying a long distance before because to this day, I think I should have married her. Maybe that's why I won't give up as easily this time. For you, don't over react to what's happening, keep your cool when you talk with her about things and she will respect you for it. Above all, she has to respect you as a man so be smart, realistic, and give it all you've got. Really, 1.5 hours isn't that far away so if you both determine you want it to work, it will be worth it for both of you. I assume you're young so keep your sights focused on your goals outside of her and you'll be happy no matter what happens because you're taking care of number 1!
