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Originally Posted by Injohneer
A love - or infatuation, whatever - that strong will haunt you forever if you leave her without giving it your all. The next girl will hear about this one and say, "So you would still be with her, if she had just lived closer?" And you'll think YES and say NO and she'll know you're lying and feel uncomfortable.
If both of you are willing to make a firm commitment to your relationship and making it work, then you should. Talk about it. About the logistics of traveling back and forth on the weekends until you move closer. How many months will that have to happen? Talk about being so committed that you don't have to worry about anyone else stepping in, when you're not together. Expect some changes in each other since you last dated...not big ones, but slight changes. Nobody stays the same.
If you don't make that firm commitment, get back together, and realize you've changed - then it will fall apart and hurt like before.
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Talk about everything, and if you both feel the same way go for it! If you don't you'll always wonder "what if." If you do get back together, and it doesn't work out, you know you tried and it wasn't meant to be.