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Originally Posted by Injohneer
A love - or infatuation, whatever - that strong will haunt you forever if you leave her without giving it your all. The next girl will hear about this one and say, "So you would still be with her, if she had just lived closer?" And you'll think YES and say NO and she'll know you're lying and feel uncomfortable.
If both of you are willing to make a firm commitment to your relationship and making it work, then you should. Talk about it. About the logistics of traveling back and forth on the weekends until you move closer. How many months will that have to happen? Talk about being so committed that you don't have to worry about anyone else stepping in, when you're not together. Expect some changes in each other since you last dated...not big ones, but slight changes. Nobody stays the same.
If you don't make that firm commitment, get back together, and realize you've changed - then it will fall apart and hurt like before.
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I kinda agree with that I've been though one of those. We dated for almost two years went though a rough time we broke up got to gether and then she started sleeping with someone closer to her. I had no way of getting up there to, well, release some stress on his face ( luckaly I never did). Give it your all but don't keep falling in her lap or she'll get to the point where she'll think she can have you back when ever she wants, Not a good place to be in.