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Injohneer · 04-26-2007, 05:08 AM

A love - or infatuation, whatever - that strong will haunt you forever if you leave her without giving it your all. The next girl will hear about this one and say, "So you would still be with her, if she had just lived closer?" And you'll think YES and say NO and she'll know you're lying and feel uncomfortable.

If both of you are willing to make a firm commitment to your relationship and making it work, then you should. Talk about it. About the logistics of traveling back and forth on the weekends until you move closer. How many months will that have to happen? Talk about being so committed that you don't have to worry about anyone else stepping in, when you're not together. Expect some changes in each other since you last dated...not big ones, but slight changes. Nobody stays the same.

If you don't make that firm commitment, get back together, and realize you've changed - then it will fall apart and hurt like before.

04-26-2007, 05:08 AM	#6 (permalink)
Injohneer Contributing Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Tulsa, OK Posts: 667	A love - or infatuation, whatever - that strong will haunt you forever if you leave her without giving it your all. The next girl will hear about this one and say, "So you would still be with her, if she had just lived closer?" And you'll think YES and say NO and she'll know you're lying and feel uncomfortable. If both of you are willing to make a firm commitment to your relationship and making it work, then you should. Talk about it. About the logistics of traveling back and forth on the weekends until you move closer. How many months will that have to happen? Talk about being so committed that you don't have to worry about anyone else stepping in, when you're not together. Expect some changes in each other since you last dated...not big ones, but slight changes. Nobody stays the same. If you don't make that firm commitment, get back together, and realize you've changed - then it will fall apart and hurt like before. __________________ Trail/Build Rig: 1981 Toyota Pickup 4x4, flatbed Tow Rig: 2001 Chevy 2500HD Duramax 4x4, X-cab Long Bed. Will be my tow rig, when I get a trailer. RIP: 1995 4Runner.